The Process

For the past 5 years, I have given multiple readings to people from North America to Australia. Developing your intuition and gift is just like a muscle – always refining and sculpting it each time it’s used. I guess you could say that my readings 5 years ago were no where near what they are today. I’m constantly learning how I can grow and develop with the way I deliver my readings to clients. In the same breathe, I feel like there is a gap in education for the public when they go to receive a reading from a fellow intuitive(s). I would like to share with you all some of the pointers / ways that I like to run my practice as a Spiritual Advisor.

On the top of the list, I definitely feel that money or pricing of services comes to mind. I struggled for years about how much to charge for my readings, as it was going around, that it’s connected to your self-worth. I always felt guilty for charging for readings, but at the same time you know you have to make a living in order to survive in life. I’ve witnessed others’ charging outrageous amounts of money; totally understanding the overhead principle, to service their clients. It really disturbs me when people are charging large sums of money upfront for prepaid services and from hearing from others’; resulting in not receiving the services they paid for all because the relationship ran it’s course and they weren’t returned their money – to me this is a moral and ethic dilemma; whether its a regulated profession or not. I believe that readings should be reasonably priced and that other services such as mentorship should be paid as “per session” basis; as we can’t predict the longevity of our relationships with clients – which also opens doors for burnt bridges and spoiled reputations. I came to the realization about a year ago – how is it that Chiropractors, Massage Therapists, etc.; highly trained professionals, making between $ 45.00 per 20-30 minutes, $ 95.00 per hour, etc. and are perfectly able to make a living? Is it greed that makes us think that we need more? I’m the first one to admit, that it’s a lot of energy as an intuitive medium to deliver the messages/advice that they need to hear, but there needs to be a happy medium for compensation.

On with the next point that I’d like to discuss: bringing awareness to standards to the level of customer care. I guess it goes with any profession, but it still disappoints and shocks me with some of the experiences I’ve heard from others’. I’m the first one to admit, that I am not perfect; although, there should be some level of professionalism, caring, empathy, etc. when working with clients – especially with the vulnerable and sensitive places we may visit with clients and needs to be taken a bit more serious in my professional opinion. Here are a few points to give you a rough idea of what I am referring to:

• Death – there is no way that, as an intuitive, we are able to predict the passing of a person. First of all, its not our right or responsibility; as this information pertains to God, the Source, or whichever Higher Power you believe in. Also, how we communicate with the other side is by signs, symbols, visions and more that need to be interpreted – spirit knows exactly what needs to be said, but its a job as an intuitive to interpret what they’re saying; which leaves room for misinterpretation. Plus, we, as humans, have what’s called “Free Will”; which essentially means that we are able to make choices freely when we go about our day. We make thousands of decisions every day; even the smallest of decisions can make an impact on the course trajectory of our lives. Personally, telling someone when they’re going to die is a disservice and not my place. It can cause major repercussions for the client(s) and ultimately alter the way they live their life and how they think.
• Time Limits – quickly I wanted to mention that a lot of people I’ve talked to really appreciated the fact that I take a few extra (5 – 15) minutes when they booked a 30 min. or 60 min. session with me. I totally understand the saying: “time is money”, but where is the compassion toward the client? I feel that being so rigid with appointments creates this automatic sense to the client that it’s all about the money and their story isn’t valid; in turn may result in them not feeling heard.
• Permission – basic protocol and procedures is asking people for their permission before giving them any type of reading; as this could disrupt their karma – as in pulling a rug from underneath them because they just may not be ready or receptive to what needs to be said. I personally have had situations where others’ have given me spiritual guidance/connection without permission and I remember feeling not so good afterward.
• Intuition – people don’t realize the importance for the use of our intuition when reading people. A lot is happening inside our brains when connection on the other side and at the same time we need to be mindful of the information we’re delivering. You know the old saying “it’s not what you say, it’s how you say it?” – exactly! Using appropriate language is crucial; on top of what to say and what not to say. Remember: there is room for error when connecting to the other side and what we can say can have effects.
• Your Choice – what we tell people isn’t set in stone, that’s what is so beautiful with “free will” because you can take what resonates from your reading and leave the rest; or if something seems off and your gut is telling you otherwise – go with that! I always tell my people that our own intuition triumphs any intuitive you’ve visited – even if you’ve seen 1000 of them! Trust your gut instincts – remember we are all born with connection; its whether or not you want to stay in tune with it is the question.
• Ask Questions / Interview – you don’t have to go with the first intuitive that you find. I’ve learned that it’s typically a quick transaction between reader and client. Make sure if you’re hesitant that you ask questions and get to know the reader before purchasing any service from them. It’s perfectly normal to say No, if you feel that you don’t resonate with a particular reader or vice versa. You want to make sure you find the right fit for YOU because having a reading done or spiritual work done can be vulnerable, emotional, and raw; so you want to make sure you have someone that will support you through that process. You should be able to feel comfortable enough to call or email your reader if you have any further questions even after your reading.
• Individuality – we spend our lives as numbers or just a name on a list. It’s like a revolving door, where unfortunately, people aren’t being heard; at the same time the are being treated within the scope of generalized treatments without follow up of the clients well-being. It’s being HEARD is the primary piece to it all – to know that you matter and your struggles are real. It shouldn’t matter what sexual orientation, age, education, occupation, culture, belief system, etc. we are ALL EQUAL and it shouldn’t matter. I think it’s important to have someone who is detached from the person’s situation that is able to lend an ear to allow space and a time for reflection; for solitude in order to regain their focus in today’s busy fast-paced society.
• OUR ROLE – Yes, we are known as “healers”, but that doesn’t mean we are doing any type of healing. Essentially, I believe our role is to be the catalyst for change within client(s) – helping guide them alongside their own healing journey where they’re put in the drivers seat. We tend to forget that when we go to readings, we are ultimately the ones initiating the change and we’re just using the intuitive as a resource. We as individuals have to put in the work to learn the life lessons and various things that are placed upon our life path.

At this point, I would like to thank the reader for reading that blurb. I am trying to keep a promise to keep these posts short and straight to the point. I don’t want people to be reading for days and days. I wanted to get across some of the thoughts that I’ve been collecting over the past few years. I take pride in what I do – at times I feel I take it a little too serious. I want to make sure that I always put the client first when they come to see me or spiritual advice/connection/guidance. I like to be as upfront and honest as possible. This profession, regardless of how people think about it, should be taken seriously – as I believe it’s an important service to help support those from all scopes of life. Yes, we all make mistakes – it’s how we learn and grow from them makes the difference. Just because I’m intuitive doesn’t exempt me from life or makes me better than. We are all in this together. I hope you enjoyed some of the insight into the profession that I feel is utmost important.

With Gratitude,

Blake xox