Soul Connections … AKA “Twin Flames”

Twin flames to me, seems like an overused and exhausted term. I feel, now, more than ever, is the time to break my silence on this particular matter. Having my own understanding for the past 6 years – gives me grounds to share what I’ve learned in the process by writing this article.

It’s a reality that you can not physically see or explain; in turn, everyone experiences it differently. It can be taxing on the mind, body, and spirit; sending individuals on a quest/journey that’s meant for their greatest and highest potential.

You type into Google or search in Youtube and you will find endless results pertaining to this subject matter. A resource that I’m sure has the intent to help others’ seeking answers to their questions and looking for advice. In my personal opinion, this can cause more harm than good, in some cases, with the information that is circulating around the internet.

It really upsets me when I see videos or articles offering to assist in helping you manifest and/or bring in your “twin flame” faster; although, I feel that it defeats the whole purpose of this indescribable connection.

I’m not discrediting the work of others’ about the advice out there; I solely feel the generic information provided doesn’t do justice to a situation that is completely individualized. At the same time, the person loses the full meaning and purpose behind it.

We all like a “quick” fix in today’s society and tend to unintentionally speed up the process of things; in which case, can lead to more emotional and mental trauma for the person. We tend to forget that this is a learning process and it’s NOT a race.

Let’s face it, this connection; with varying degrees hurts like hell. You can encounter the following:

  • Anxiety and/or anxiety attacks
  • Panic and/or panic attacks
  • Feeling their presence when they’re around or near.
  •  A magnetic pull/vibrating/electric feeling.
  • Visions
  • Dreams
  • Being emotional (randomly) and/or sensing their emotions.
  • Having “fated” meetings.
  • Similar living circumstances.
  • Inner knowing
  • The ability to hear/see/feel/think what they’re saying, seeing, or doing.
  • Have a deep love and understanding of who they are; seeing straight to their soul.
  • Signs and symbols.
  • A sense of feeling “at – home”.
  • You just want to be around them; not sexual.
  • Constant thoughts about them.
  • Communication from their loved ones (mediumship).

This is a sense of what I directly witnessed while on my very own journey; as I admit, it has been quite challenging, and at times, near impossible. Just when you think it’s finished; another element is added into the mix.

I want you to throw out all that you’ve learned from all the research and literature you’ve read – take a deep breath ……

Are you READY? ………..

This relationship that we’re in doesn’t have a textbook answer; it can give you an outline of what you could be looking for, but ultimately it doesn’t apply to your situation.

The connection is like having a quite intense mirror pointed in your direction; magnifying all of the lessons; potentially your flaws,  that need to be worked on, from within yourself, to bring about positive change. This practice brings you closer to where you need to be on your journey in life; all for the greatest and highest good. It’s intense; at times debilitating.

Through the process, think about what you’re learning. For example, the wisdom that I have obtained includes:

  • Independence 
  • Self-Love
  • Courage
  • Confidence
  • Unconditional Love
  • Trusting the Process
  • Inner Strength
  • Self-Worth
  • What I do/do not want in a relationship and life.
  • Definition of Love
  • Body Positivity
  • Self-Care
  • Recognizing and processing emotions.
  • Boundaries
  • Personal Growth
  • Empathy
  • There’s no such thing as “having control.”
  • You can only make changes for yourself – not just for the other person.
  • You cannot interfere with the other person’s journey – it’s their lessons, NOT yours.
  • Being open to the possibilities.
  • Free-will

We get so caught up with “is he/she/them coming back?” that we stop living essentially because we are so focused on one specific thing. We need to be in the present moment and focus on what we’re learning; enjoying the progress that we make along the way, while living day to day – conducting our daily routines.

There is no guarantee that we will reunite with our soul connection; there are too many variables to have a definitive answer because we all have “free-will” to pick and choose how and where we would like to go in life; we can’t force anyone to do anything either because that will basically interrupt their karma and life path. A wise friend of mine told me, reconnection isn’t the goal; as if it does happen, it’s truly icing on the cake!

I want to take this time to thank all of those who took the time to read this publication. My goal is to bring awareness, as a medium, and a human being; to share my knowledge thus far being on my spiritual journey. I wish to bring practicality back into spirituality; emphasising on individuality. I believe this journey is meant to bring about not only awareness, but building a strong, independent, loving, confident, and beautiful sense of self.

Please know: the journey to self isn’t a perfect one; take the time to love, respect, and forgive yourself through the whole process. People seem to forget that even as a Medium; I’m only human just like everyone else – let’s walk through our paths 

together; reinforcing the old saying: “it takes a village to raise a child.”

Spirituality is about (3) things:

  1. Ask Questions
  2. Observe
  3. Awareness

With Gratitude,

Blake xox

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